My mother stopped by my house on Saturday. When she was with us, both my daughters were online chatting with their friends, my husband was walking around, talking to his friend over his mobile phone, my mother-in-law was watching TV and I was checking my emails. So my mum joined my mother-in-law in watching TV. During a commercial break my mum simply said though there were many people around, my house was very quiet and so was hers.
I stopped checking my mails and listened. It was really quiet. Apart from the sounds from TV all I could hear was the clicking sound of keyboard and a faint conversation my husband had with his friend. We were at the same place, at the same time but we did not 'communicate'.
TV and radio are the first tools that separate us from each other. Before TVs and radio people went out to see "Li-kay". They were ready to socialise. Then came phones and mobile phones. How many times do we use our mobile phone as a way to avoid making contact with others in public places? People stop talking and getting to know each other. 'The land of smiles' no longer exist. We look 'through' people as if we are looking through thin air, right?
iPod and MP3 player do the same trick--cutting us out from the rest of the world. It's rather strange that we have isolated ourselves from others more and more. People make friends via internet. Some even purchase things online. They don't even go out and socialise with sales persons. Food delivery online or by phone has become a common way of finding something to eat.
How 'private' do we want to be?
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In my opinion, sometime we want to private for relaxation so that we should spend time for exercise and meeting.
Socialization is the way to give and change my opinion and talking about i want. There are many way to private such as listen to the radio, watching TV, play game, use the internet, and read the favourite book. These way
are a part of method that they use
in relaxing but no that all.
Meeting is good thing for helping people make feel good when they told problem with their friends or people that they know
for helping solve problem or cheerful.
sometime I read the favourite book and sleeping.
In fact,the private life of people in recent is comfortable.From all technology tools that help relax.I think it well for you.But in my life I should not do that.I wish to stay out of town. My house must have many tree,flower,animal and my family.There are don't have a technology tool but have natural and all member of our family.I would like to do my work that i love.I would like to be a conservationist,because I graduated from conservation biology program.And do my work in place there are threat from many reason.I know everybody wish to be a peaceful life.Natural can help you happy and healthy ,there are don't have anything to separate you from other if your mind don't wanna.In my favorite private. I can contact with other all time that I want.I think it very happy for me.
I think everybody wanna be a good life and often choose the best way to life.For me I would like to do everything that I feel happy and smile when do it. I want to be a plain and ordinary life. Finally, I wish to spend time for everybody and everything that I love.
Sometimes technology tools can help we relax but I think the communication with other people especially our family is the best thing. For me after work and study I exercise at a women's gym, where I laugh and talk with other women about life issues. Sometimes I meditate and pray. The combination helps me reenergize, keep peace of mind, and maintain a healthy attitude.
In this article. I think about role of technology to 'private'.
We have many technologies for human life-style. Not only technology for entertainment like TV and radio but also communication technology like mobile phone and internet. However, each member of family to decrease conversation which may be to make treble. For instance to lack of good advice to daughters when they encountered problem and become social problem. There for, In holiday everybody should be to do housework , camping on the water fall or mountain etc. Because activities create good relationship in family.
Interesting opinions ka. I agree with Khun Sutasinee and Khun Narin that joining in family activities is essential for healthy living.
By the way, comment by Khun Natthakan is way too short ka. One short sentence doesn't say much what you think. Write more ka!
I think life in the city is not peaceful for me. I like traveling to the upcountries with my family and my friends when I have enough time. If I cannot avoid the city, I will go to the book store to buy some novel books and bring back to read at my home. Sometimes I will find out some Korean or Japanese series to watch.
Technologies have not change people that much.They are just another way of relaxing.For me people still want society.When they finished with their technology,they are back to society as normal may be with much more happiness and relaxation because they have done many thing interesting and relaxing.In my opinion,when i feel anxious or happy I like to talk with my family especially my mom.So I never feel lonely in the world because my family understand me every time.
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At present I forget the word ‘lonely’ but I think only I have done yet my English homework and can I finish assignment job in my company?.For everyday my life I spend much time
going to the marriage party, the cremating ceremony,to join the classmate party,the alumni training party etc.So the question how ‘private’do I want to be? I have no answer.
I would like to share my opinion more about this title. I think communication technology like TV,radio,internet,mobile phone give us many information about what happening in this worldwhile.
For me mobile phone make me close to my family when I come to study here in Bangkok and my family staying in Nakhonsritamarat because my family and I call each other everyday this technology give me chance to contact with them regularity and don't let me feel lonely in big city like Bangkok.
I think technology has the role for our life-style. Especially, TV, mobile phone and internet because we can communicate with other people by them and they can help us to relax. Beside the advantage of technology, they have many disadvantages if we use them in the wrong way. But I think the parents should look after their children closely especially the internet. For me, I go home every weakend if it possible(My family live in Samutsakhorn) because I like to stay at home. My house doesn't have internet, so when I'm at home I'm usually watching TV and talk about many things with my parents. In my opinion, in holiday the member of family should do something and have to communicate together because when somebody has the problem we can help her or him.
I think the Technology has a role in the way of life too much , because of , we use the Technology is one of the life has gone to already , make torn the relation in a family ,
Sometime,I use a mobile, a mp3 or internet to separate myself from social or other people. I think that is ways for a peaceful for me.From " Are we geeting lonely" I was feeled that is a fact today but I'm not because I like to talk with my friends, my family everyday.However,some activities separate people always but I still believe Thai families are not getting lonely because Thai's culture are friendly and helpful.
I don't think that the technology make we getting lonely. I can communicate with my family or friend by mobile phone when we aren't in the same place. I accept that mobile phone is the fifth factor for my life. Besides I like internet very much,it is very conenient when I want to search about data, journal, thesis etc. Sometimes I am very lazy to go to the libery for searching the data.
I love technology.
Myself's study Agriculture. I'm learning with about Agronomy. I think many nonessential technology but it's importance in communication. Because that's information source in research such as phone, mobile phone, TV. and radio but it isn't all of life. It's only part of one life which we could came to bought of us. I like to live with than more nature which it was alllife of original such trees, rivers and animals etc. But present in sovial have many technology with human life. It wasn't thing tokeep off and it will to live with to continue all human.
sometime i read a favorite books about used car,taxation and investment in thai stock market.Besides i frequently use the internet to find data.
These way are methods for me.
i like to bird watching and travelling in thailand nature.Usually,i have more friends.i few lonely .Now i have a lot of activity such as birds watching ,thesis and to supervise building in KU.
Now, technologies have a role for life-style of people. In this article , I think this familiy should be communicate or help to do housework in holiday. But in my life, techonologies have an advantage especially mobile phone and internet because I stay alone in apartment sometime I want to talk with my parents or my friend and internet was used to find research paper.
I think, in present can use technology to support every lifestyle, so techonology important for every body. But sometime should communication with other people, especially should communication in family. For myslf, sometime I use techonology to facilitate. TV, radio, MP3 and computer can help me to relex but sometime I sould conversation with other people or read a book.
Today,I think technology are important for living life because technology help facilitation and relaxation for life.When we use everything technology,we can control it.Do not technology control us and we must forget communicate to your family and around people because we can't live alone in this world.
In my opinion , Today technology are important for living life because of technology are help relaxation and communication easy such as internet , mobile. But in my life I like to bird watching in nature more than watching TV.in my room.
If i will talk to the relaxing activities. i have many way to relax . but some activities aren't private such as play guitar , singing karaoke ,play football or meeting with my friends in liverpool FC fan club from my web site for watching liverpool football match.
But that i said on the top it a little time.. Then majority time of me ?
I have many freetimes to take private activities. i away sitting in front of my computer. It's my new world of me. I spended times too much for internet ,website,chat and games. And anytimes i using it for studies because it's very easy .. i sit at here but i can go to anyplace in the WORLD!!!.
i think there're 2 topics in this article - specific interesting and technology. Nowaday everything has specific market group including music, food, movie, etc. For example, even though i love music but actually i love electronic-pop and r&b music and there's no one could talk to me at university or home. Since i'm shearching someone who can talk to me, i found them on the internet. We were interesting in the same thing and someone became my closet friend because not only we could talk in music but we can talk about privacy also.
Next is technology, technology make life comfortable is true. But it makes us to control who do we want to communicate or not. i think technology control our lifes more than we think. And people were used to using internet in everyting as A.Primchai said.
The best way to solve this problem are doing activities or talking to each other more.
All things in this world have two side, like a coin, the new technology equipment can use as a way to making contact with others or to avoid depend on you. On television program such as the millionaires game ( game-sert-ti), The family member can communicate with each other by answering the question, discuss about the new knowledge, explain their own opinion and recode the point to find the winner. The new song on radio can become a funny question to guess who is/are the singer. The mobile phone not only use as a separator ( between you and your husband) when your husband talking with his friend but also use a connector ( between your husband and his friend) . iPod and MP3 player give me new friends who are love the same song. Changing the new song or find the web page to download the cool song is the way to socialize each other for me. For me, food delivery online or by phone has become a common way of finding something to eat just only when it has a buy 1 get 1 promotion like pizza.
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Add comment ka. My house must have many pets(dogs, cats, fishs and brids) becouse my family love animals. My family don't have a technology tool but have natural. My family should be to do housework, picnic at my home gradent. Because activities create good relationship in family. I wish my family happy happy everyday.
I think that technology didn't has only bad thing.someone think that technology will make people lazy,But sometime it will be a only one that will make people,who feel lonely,feel good. such as MP3player,cell phone,pocket pc,etc.
Technology didn't heart people if they know how to use them be effective.
I think sometime technology can help
working and make life comfortable is true.internet,TV,radio and MP3 can help we relax.
Sometimes I want to have private emotion, but not often.When I am bored with my work, I will listen my favorite songs from my MP3 player and it makes me feel better.But when I feel lonely I always go out to meet my friends and talk with them.Everyday when I came back to my room, I often use mobile phone to talk with my mom, dad and daughter because my family is not in Bangkok.I think that there are many advantages and disadvantages of technology tools that we use in everyday life depending on how we use.
In my private time,I like to play computer game,read a favorite books, watching dvd movie, check my emails,play my quiter and drive my car to go to everywhere I want.
Soory for posing late. I think technology can help us comfortable and relax but sometime it separate us out off the society or family so we should attend everybody around us.
For me, TV,radio and computer can help me to relex in my private time when i live alond in my room but i still like to do someting with my friend or my family.
In my opinion,the private is evertime that I do or stay alone.Some time, I want private for example,when I read book or do my homework,I must have quiet area because if I stay with people,I talk always.I don’t like private all the time,it make me sad and feel alone.So I like private when I read book or do work only,futhermore I like stay with my family,my friends to do many activity for example,watch T.V.,see movie,cook,shopping,travel.It is very happy time for me.
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